Student Wellness
A Proactive and Holistic Approach to Student Wellness
Our mission is to empower our students with the tools, both academic and emotional, to guide them through their years at KO, so they can make positive and healthy choices and thrive at school and beyond. We do this by honing in on what Kingswood Oxford has always done best – nourishing our students academically, socially, physically, and emotionally. By equipping our students with a solid scaffold that promotes resilience and independence, they can better tolerate setbacks and remain on a positive and productive track.

Social & Emotional Learning/ Vincit Qui Se Vincit (VQV) Curriculum

Our work centers on developing five key social-emotional skills essential for our students: self-awareness, self-management, social awareness, relationship management, and responsible decision-making.
To help build these competencies, students participate in the Life Skills program at the Middle School and the VQV program at the Upper School. Through these interactive classes, students learn how to manage academic and emotional stress better, develop conflict resolution and leadership skills, understand the foundations of healthy relationships, effectively manage the college exploration and application process, and acquire practical life skills.
Academic and Emotional Support
We understand that students with diagnosed learning and/or emotional challenges require extra scaffolding to succeed in the classroom. The Student Wellness Team works with students, families, advisors, and teachers to ensure that all learners are fully supported with appropriate accommodations.
- Academic and/or emotional coaching with learning specialists and/or counselors
- School Accommodation Plans
- Community and professional development for faculty
- Mental health resources

We want our students to leave KO and be able to go to a college or university of their choice and have a strong sense of who they are as a learner, so they can meet with their professors and advocate for themselves. We empower them to understand what's best for them in terms of understanding college-level materials.
— Jen Hayman-Gross, Director of Student Wellness
A Conversation with Director of Wellness
Jennifer Hayman Gross serves as the Director of Wellness and one of the school’s dedicated learning specialists, beginning her career as an academic support counselor for student athletes at George Washington University. Her professional philosophy is built on the principles of student-centered support, deep relationship-building, and a holistic approach that values both academic and emotional well-being.
Jen’s approach is rooted in the belief that knowing each student individually and building relationships over time are essential for effective support. She implements a “looping” model, in which learning specialists follow students from sixth grade through graduation. This unique model enables specialists to truly understand a student’s journey—tracking their progress, identifying areas of growth and challenge, and providing consistent support throughout their KO career.
Meet the team
Brenna Chiaputti
Middle School Counselor
Hamilton College, B.A.; Trinity College, M.A.; University of Connecticut, M.S.W.
[email protected] 860-233-9631 X3302Bio
Jennifer Hayman-Gross
Student Services
College of Wooster, B.A., The George Washington University, M.A.
[email protected] 860-233-9631 X3312Bio
Athena McAlenney
Education Specialist
Dartmouth College, B.A.; University of Pennsylvania, M.S. Ed.; University of Connecticut, Ph.D
[email protected] 860-233-9631Bio
Felicia Velez
Upper School Mental Health Counselor
Eastern Connecticut State University, B.A.; University of Connecticut, M.S.W; Charter Oak State College, M.A.
[email protected] 860-233-9631 X2363