The leadership at Kingswood Oxford guides the school to uphold its mission.

Leadership

School Leadership

Meet our Head of School Tom Dillow 

 

Born in the United States and raised in Europe, Head of School Tom Dillow grew up experiencing different cultures, communities, and ways of looking at the world. That international upbringing helped shape a worldview that is broad-minded, curious, and accepting of different perspectives, qualities that continue to inform both his leadership and his approach to education.

 

Tom returned to the United States to attend Georgetown University, where he studied Government and History and distinguished himself on the soccer field as one of the Hoyas’ top-scoring strikers. A scholar-athlete, he earned Academic All-American honors while developing interests in history, politics, and international affairs that would ultimately lead him toward a career in education. He later earned a master’s degree in International and European Politics from the University of Edinburgh.

 

A lifelong educator, Tom began his career as a history teacher and varsity soccer coach at The McCallie School in Chattanooga, Tennessee, and Landon School in Bethesda, Maryland. He later taught and held leadership roles at The Lawrenceville School in New Jersey before joining Shorecrest Preparatory School in St. Petersburg, Florida, where he served as Assistant Head of School and Head of the Upper School.

 

In 2018, Tom became Head of School at Kingswood Oxford, bringing with him a belief that education should prepare students not simply to succeed in a changing world, but to create a life for themselves that brings joy and meaning. Education, to Dillow, is not a means to an end, but rather an investment in becoming fully human. 

 

Under his leadership, KO has developed a strategic vision centered on transformative, real-world, and interdisciplinary learning. That vision has expanded learning beyond the traditional classroom through partnerships across Greater Hartford and programs such as the IMPACT Program, which challenges students to wrestle with complex problems, connect disciplines, and apply their knowledge in meaningful ways. During his tenure, Tom also led the successful $22 million Seize the Day campaign and made significant investments in campus and programs, including transforming the former library and dining hall into the Community Commons, a dynamic hub for learning, collaboration, and connection.

 

At the heart of Tom’s educational philosophy is intellectual curiosity: the willingness to ask difficult questions, examine assumptions, seek evidence, and remain open to perspectives that challenge one’s own. Just as important is the responsibility to use one’s education in service to others. He encourages students to measure success not simply by what they achieve or acquire, but by the difference they make in their communities. He encourages them to “leave the light on” for others through everyday acts of kindness and belonging.

 

Tom serves on the Board of Hartford Youth Scholars and as a Commissioner on the New England Association of Schools and Colleges Commission on Independent Schools. He and his wife, Deirdre, have four sons, three of whom are KO graduates.

Leadership Team

Kata Baker

Dean of Students

Connecticut College, B.A.

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Josh Balabuch

Director of Athletics

Saginaw Valley State University, B.A.; Southern New Hampshire University, M.A.

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Brett Carroll

Chief Financial and Operations Officer

University of Connecticut, B.S University of Hartford, M.S.

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Kathryn Dunn

Middle School Modern Languages; Associate Head, Middle School

Colby College, B.A.

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Dr. Susan Emery

Director of Enrollment Management

George Washington University, B.B.A., Boston University, M. Ed.; University of Southern California, Ed. D.

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Lisa Loeb

Assistant Head of School, Head of the Upper School

Bates College, B.A.; University of Pennsylvania, M.S.Ed.

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Sherri Malinoski

Executive Assistant to the Head of School

University of Connecticut, B.A.

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Sean Meehan

Director of Advancement

Trinity College, B.A.

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Rich Mutts

Director of Diversity, Equity, Inclusion & Belonging

University of Connecticut B.A., Concordia College M. A.

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Jackie Pisani

Director of Communications & Marketing

Marist College, B.A; Columbia University, M.A.L.S

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Ann Sciglimpaglia

Assistant Head of School, Head of the Middle School, MS Field Hockey Head Coach

Ohio University, B.S.; Bank Street College of Education, M.S.

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“We believe it is important for our students to maintain a healthy balance between school and home life. And, we believe that they benefit the most when school and family partner together in the extraordinary task of raising kind, thoughtful, and curious young adults.”

— Tom Dillow, Head of School

 

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10.25
MIDDLE SCHOOL OPEN HOUSE  

10:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.

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10.20, 11.17, 12.08
KO LIVE: INSIDE THE UPPER SCHOOL

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6:00 p.m. – 7:30 p.m. Program

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